How to be mistaken for a Parisian

The French are known for their impeccable sense of style, and while this post may not be able to share the exact secret to possessing that certain je ne sais quoi that the French (especially French women) are known for, it should be able to help you blend in and look a little less touristy (often code for American).

The first rule of thumb is to possess the right shoes. You may not realize it, but shoes make or break an outfit. Now, I'm not suggesting you walk around Paris in stilettos (unless you are so inclined), but try not to dress in sneakers. A cute pair of flats, some stylish walking boots under jeans, or sandals will go a long way in sprucing up your general outfit. Don't believe me? Spend some time looking down at the ground the next time you're in France, and you'll quickly realize that very, very few people are wearing sneakers out in public. For men, a nice pair of shoes is also essential - not your fanciest, but something you might wear to work. You need to be comfortable, of course, but comfort and style are not mutually exclusive concepts.

The second rule of thumb is to wear clean, well-fitting pants. Jeans are acceptable, but make sure they are neither too loose nor too tight, and that they do not bunch up at the bottom. Khakis and skirts are also acceptable options for women, and men should avoid the typical tourists shorts at any and all costs. Wearing shorts à la Americain in Paris will make you stick out like a sore thumb. Shorts in France are generally associated with children's clothing, so anyone over the age of 13 is encouraged to steer clear. Pants that are baggy, worn at the knee level, or are filled with holes will also attract attention.

The third rule is to just generally look put together. Look like you are going to a business lunch, but slightly less formal. The French do not leave the house looking as though they just rolled out of bed, and neither should you. Plus, you'll find it's kind of nice to look put together in public (nice clothes, nice shoes, maybe a touch of makeup, just generally a neat appearance). This means that if it is cool, find some other piece of apparel to keep you warm that is not a sweatshirt, because a sweatshirt will make you look trop Americain. For ladies this can mean a sweater, a trench coat, or a short jacket. For men, a longer coat or a sweater will do.

Finally, if you are a woman and the weather is conducive to doing so, wear a scarf. I know this sounds absurdly silly and simple, but it's really true. A scarf tied properly (google 'french scarves' for great pictures and how-tos) will make you look French in a matter of seconds. You may even find yourself being asked for directions on the street by a confused tourist (or French person - it has happened to me several times, and each time I was wearing a scarf. Coincidence? I think not!). Earrings are a nice touch, but not a necessity; as long as you have the scarf and have tied it well, you are good to go.

And that is how to disguise yourself as a quintessential Parisian instead of a touristy American in Paris (and elsewhere in France, for these rules are applicable anywhere).

1 comment

emiglia wrote 1 year 31 weeks ago

This is so true! The scarf

This is so true! The scarf tip especially... great article! Hopefully more American tourists will read it... it's great to wander Paris and be treated as a local instead of a foreigner.

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